Sam and Betty Help Me Find Happiness: Dating Karma

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Dating Karma

A few of my guy friends from the DYT have also been online dating. One guy (who used a paid website) is happily dating a girl from Cincinnati. The other two have been using the same free site I am and haven't really had any success.

Anyway...we all went to dinner the other night and the topic of dating etiquette came. All three guys were very adamant about not contacting the girl if things didn't work out. They didn't feel the need to send any type of communication to let the person know they no longer wished to communicate with them. I disagreed and explained my dating karma theory. If you screw someone over, you are the next to be screwed over. They all thought I was crazy but I very much live by that rule. If I no longer want to communicate with a guy, I tell him. It might be awkward and kind of suck, but it has to be done. I don't want to be on that end next time, where I'm stilling and waiting for a guy to call me when he isn't going to.

Again the guys thought I was crazy and they didn't believe in something like that. Regardless, I still believe in dating karma and you best believer I try my damnedest to keep mine right.

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Welcome to My Blog

After some encouragement from friends and the death of my Grandmother, I've decided to chronicle the search for "my one". For the last two years I've been searching for the man who could be "the one" for me... otherwise known as "my one". I've done a great deal of thinking and over thinking about this subject. Maybe putting my thoughts down on paper (and out there for thousands of people to read) will somehow be therapeutic. I hope you enjoy and please feel free to comment. Note: I have changed names in order to protect the men who didn't work out.

The Story of How Betty and Sam Met

The story of how my grandparents (Betty and Sam) met has been passed down from mother to daughter for the last 60 years. My grandmother told my mother, my mother told me, and one day I will share the story with my daughter. It is a rare story about true love. This story is the inspiration for my search for love.

My grandparents met in February of 1945. My grandfather was on leave from the military and waiting for the bus one afternoon. My great-grandfather drove by and asked my grandfather if he wanted a ride (apparently this was normal in 1945). They started talking and my great-grandfather invited my gradfather over for dinner. Later that evening my grandfather came over for dinner. My grandmother, dressed in her factory clothes, opened the door to greet my grandfather. She was so embarrassed she slamed the door in his face ran up the stairs to change. At dinner, my grandfather asked my grandmother out to dinner the next night. My grandmother said no because she had to go buy a baby gift. After being asked several more times by grandfather, she finally agreed. The next night the two went shopping for a babyshower gift. The sales clerk at the store asked my grandfather what size dress their litter girl wore. My grandfather turned to my grandmother and said "I don't know. Dear, what size does she wear?" Embarrassed, my grandmother left the store. My grandfather followed her out and purposed to her outside the store. Three months later, they were married.

Their marrage was cut short in 1968 when my grandfather died of a heart attack. My grandmother passed away on December 1, 2009. She waited 41 years to be reunited with my gradfather. This story shows me that love is out there, I just have to find it. Let's hope Betty and Sam can show me the way.

Hazel E. Long

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Dating Karma

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