Cleaning Out My Dating Closet

I've been doing some cleaning today. I mopped my kitchen floor, did some laundry, and deleted some guys from my life.

I finally broke things off with Andy. I was nice and tactful or at least that was my intent. I told him that it seemed like we were drifting apart because we are both busy people. I followed that up with maybe if we were in different places in our lives, things could be different. Now, this is all true. We are drifting apart because I've stopped texting him back all the time. I am always busy and by "things could have been different", I mean if you weren't raciest... maybe this could have worked out. He hasn't responded but I don't really see him doing that... he doesn't like confrontation.

I'm also attempting to delete Chris from my life...again. We broke up at the end of August. It was a clean break with little drama (if you don't count that fact that he cried). I made the mistake of ripping that wound open in November when I suggested we have coffee. He said he still loved me and I said I just wanted to be friends. Well... it turns out I lied. I don't really want to be friends. We've been emailing back and forth since the coffee meeting but he's been emailing more frequently these days. I haven't quite figured out how to let him down...again...but I'm working on it. My emails are getting shorter and less frequent. I hope he's getting the idea. I'll keep you posted on this one.