I heard back from Big Red today and he was kind of a jerk. I told him no thank you and he threw it back in my face. He wanted me to clarify what I meant by "being friends". I don't fault him in that. You can say you want to be friends but not really mean it. I told him that I couldn't make any promises about a friendship that may or may not form. I thought it was a valid response. He texts me back say that he was testing me and that he wasn't sure if he actually felt anything either but thought he "would give it another go". I wasn't sure what I say in response...I mean I wanted to tell him to fuck off but I was trying not to over react. So I said, I'm glad there are not hard feelings. He responded by saying that we didn't actually go on a "real date", that I seemed like a cool person but I was right that the chemistry needed to go on wasn't there. I haven't responded and I don't think I'm going to. I just keep thinking in my head, why do you have to be a jerk? I was trying to be honest and open with you. Delete...for sure.
On an unrelated note, I got an email from Putt-Putt today. He didn't mention anything about me telling him that I wasn't interested in pursuing a relationship with him. It was the same old email that he always sends me. Did he just skip over that part when he read the email. I haven't decided if I'm going to write back. How many times do I need to break up with this guy?
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